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When Silence Screams: What Introverts Wish Extroverts Knew

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Behind the Silence: Why Introverts Think, Work, and Connect Differently
“Empathy begins with understanding life from another person’s perspective. Nobody has an objective experience of reality. It’s all through our own individual prisms.” — Sterling K. Brown
Introverts and extroverts offer different but equally vital strengths for startup success.
They may function differently, too. Introverts recharge through solitude, excel at deep thinking, and take time to process, while extroverts gain energy from others, act quickly, and drive momentum. Misunderstandings happen when introverts’ need for space is mistaken for aloofness or their strengths are overlooked, or when extroverts are unappreciated due to the elevated energy they bring.
In startups, extroverts can push visibility and encourage bold moves, and introverts may anchor strategy and build through deep work. Teams that respect both perspectives unlock greater innovation and growth.
Recognizing and combining these differences is essential for building resilient startups.
Silent Strength: The Introvert’s Guide to Building Successful Startups
What if the quietest person in the room is the one who changes the world?
Silent Strength, due on December 4th, is a practical guide that empowers introverted entrepreneurs to harness their natural strengths, lead authentically, and succeed in the startup world without pretending to be extroverts.
Here are some early comments:
“Introversion led me away from distractions like girls and parties and drugs, and made me feel better when I was doing unusual things very out of the box. What others did I did not want to do because I’d be compared with and in confrontation with others. I attribute my ’shyness’ to all the success of my life. Silent Strength celebrates introversion as a path to authentic innovation and entrepreneurial success.”
– Steve Wozniak, Co-founder of Apple, National Medal of Technology recipient, and Inventors Hall of Fame inductee
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“As a founder that leans towards the introverted side of the equation, I am a big fan of Silent Strength! So many actionable and accessible ways to work through the many challenges we face. I do have to give a special nod to the chapter on sales since that's our area of expertise. Introvert or not, starting with a repeatable and scalable process that builds value and connects with the buyer is a win for everyone.”
– Amanda Leikam, Co-founder of Level213 and Co-author of Accelerating Revenue: Your Definitive Guide to the Theory and Practice of Go-to-Market Enablement

Startup Spark
“We will be more successful in all our endeavors if we can let go of the habit of running all the time and take little pauses to relax and re-center ourselves. And we'll also have a lot more joy in living.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
Startup culture often glorifies relentless work, urgency, and hustle.
When founders continuously operate at full speed, stress and fatigue inevitably limit their capacity for creative thinking and resilience. Taking deliberate breaks helps avoid burnout, assess progress, confirm priorities, think creatively, and recalibrate strategies.
Joel Gascoigne, co-founder and CEO of Buffer, reached a breaking point in mid-2017 after years of constant stress, setbacks, and pressure. Despite the startup world's relentless pace, he acknowledged his burnout and made the courageous decision to step away for six weeks. During this break, he focused on rest, reflection, and reconnecting with his values. This pause allowed him to regain clarity and return with renewed energy.
Since then, Buffer returned to profitability and reached new all-time revenue highs in 2025. They’ve generated over $170 million in lifetime revenue. Committed to sustainable growth, employee well-being, and long-term independence, they consistently refused to conduct layoffs even throughout the pandemic and economic slowdowns.
Joel’s story shows that in a world that celebrates constant motion, the most powerful move a founder can make is to stop and create space for clarity and renewal.

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