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How to Build a Company When You’re Scared of the Unknown
Benjamin Friedman
April 28, 2026
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This newsletter tackles the dilemma, “How do I know what I don’t know?” with pointed predictions, practical takeaways, and curated NYC events to help founders and CFOs expand options and build resilience.
The Unknown Isn’t Blocking You—It’s Pointing the Way
If you feel anxious about what’s ahead, you’re not alone. As a founder, you can’t opt out of uncertainty, but you can choose how you respond to it.
Fear lives in the tension between what you know and what you can’t yet see, and it often feels like a stop sign. This post reframes it as a signal.
You’ll learn how to calm your nervous system, turn vague dread into specific questions, expand your options beyond “win or fail,” run small experiments that generate real data, and treat fear as evidence that you’re close to something meaningful.
How you handle fear and anxiety defines your path.
You can read the full piece in this week’s full blog post HERE.
Go Wide: A Life Less Curated explores how major historical events have shaped today’s world and what they might signal about the future. Do you agree? What else should we dive into? Share your thoughts at [email protected].
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Where NYC Finance Leaders Go for Real Answers
If you’re a finance leader at a high‑growth company, you need clear benchmarks, proven recommendations, and trusted peers so you can solve problems quickly.
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Trust, Tech, and the Bottom Line: CFOs at the Frontline of AI Risk (May 20)
Designing a Fractional Practice: From from Pipeline to Priorities (June 10)
My Worst Day as a CFO, and the Meaningful Lessons Learned (July 15)
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Expert Tips for Startups
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Saying “No” Before It Breaks You
"Half of life's troubles can be traced to saying 'yes' too quickly and not saying 'no' soon enough." – Josh Billings (19th‑century humorist)
Founders get flooded with “just 15 minutes” requests, intros, and events. It’s tempting to say yes, but you’ll quickly become unfocused and exhausted.
A powerful way to shape your startup’s trajectory is to say “no” more often.
Healthy boundaries protect your energy, priorities, and team so you can deliver what matters. Say no too rarely, and you become a doormat. Say no too harshly, and you come across as a jerk.
You should feel comfortable saying no, and if possible, offer an alternative or suggest someone else qualified to help. This approach treats you and others with respect.
Right now: Look at your next seven days, choose one meeting, request, or task that does not serve your top priorities, and send a clear, respectful “no.”
Build What Matters, Without Burning Out
For founders, the gap between big ideas and consistent follow‑through is where companies fail. But plans don’t matter until you do something with them.
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